Hi expectant moms,
Some of you may be hesitant to place your baby for adoption with a single parent home instead of a married couple. That is completely understandable and in some ways valid. You should place your baby with the family that feels like the right fit for you. However, I did want to provide some reassurance.
I am very aware that raising a child as a single parent will be difficult. I do have a lot of support from family and friends - there is a whole community that is excited to be involved and help out.
I work from home which means I can give the baby attention throughout the day although I do plan on using daycare part time starting around 6 months because I feel like it is a good way for the child to socialize with other adults and kids. My job allows me to set my own hours so I will be able to adjust my schedule as needed to fit the child's changing schedule.
I do hope to be in a committed relationship sometime in the future but dating and relationships aren't my priority at this time in my life. I want to devote my energy and focus to the child. I have not ruled out having biological children at some point but, again, that isn't a priority for me. An adopted child will always be loved even if I also had biological children - they would all just be my children. In fact, the adopted child would always hold a special place in my heart as the person who made me a mother.
I have the resources, time, energy and love to take on the wonderful journey as a single parent. I know when to ask for help and will always put the child first. I can provide a supportive and stable home for a baby.
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