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  • Writer's pictureRachel Johansen

Our future relationship

I wish I had a crystal ball to tell you exactly what my relationship with the child’s birth mother will be like.  Unfortunately, I can’t see the future.

However, I would love for the birth mother to be involved in my child’s life somehow.  Generally, it’s better for the child to know where they came from and have that connection and I would want that for them.

What that involvement looks like will depend on so many different things, but most importantly to me is to honor the feelings and wishes of the birth mother.  And it’s okay for those feelings to change over time.  I can understand that you might want more or less contact for many reasons.

What I can promise is to be open and honest about our future relationship and willing to work together to figure out what works best for everyone involved.


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